I have to say, with respect to you, Hovis, that I believe this to be the time to make sure you are happy where you are playing - your first loyalty must be to yourself - that way, you will be a happier league player and it will benefit the league in the long-term.
Personally, the majority of my guys are fresh into the league - that was my primary aim to get new blood into the mix, so more nice people can enjoy the experience. However, I wanted a few good friends with me too; it just happened that they had played on teams already. They are still my friends and not the property of a league-team.
Btw, my last space that needs to be filled will be fresh to the league, one way or another. The delight of inviting a new person into our league is far nicer than getting a player who is already in it - I should know, I am the only one here that has created 2 teams and I have helped friends recruit fresh blood too. When you see a new player join and the excitement it brings - its a buzz!!!! As Placer said to me recently (I thought it was a really nice phrase that he used) ... there's no greater gift than to give.
So, please, Graham m8, don't be too hard (lol, and don't eat my face off for typing this - do aussies call that a pash?) on anyone that asks a friend to join; as long as players aren't jumping about and changing their minds like kangaroos with the attention-span of a squirrel, then, I think they are entitled to choose their poker-league-home themselves.
Otherwise, it might be terribly claustrophobic to be in a team where you don't feel entirely comfortable!? What good does that do anyone? |